Now when I mean sex I don’t mean procreation, I mean sex the act, the ” fun part”. We as human being crave it and at the same time we demonize it. I want to know, what is sex to you? Is it recreational activity, something deep between two people or neither?
@oze-mask, We have a lot of fucked up views toward sex, as the result of societal attitudes, but I think it’s one of the most natural things in the world, or should be anyway. It really gets perverted when you suppress something so normal, and a lot of us have twisted views on it because of that… but I think once you get past or remove all of those skewed views, it’s one of the most beautiful things ever. Could be just a recreational activity or something deeper, it’s up to the people partaking. Personally I don’t like one night stand type things. It’s kinda “fun” but ultimately hollow compared to sharing that experience with someone you care about.
@tangledupinplaid21, yeah, I’ve been brought up to believe sex is a hollowed ground, not to be tread on lightly. Something between two people and only two people forever. But I believe you can share it with whoever you wish. Sex does have meaning, but I believe you are throne who gives it meaning, each participant gives it meaning in the same way each participant gives meaning to a conversation meaning, it can bea shallow conversation or a deep conversation. No pun intended lol.
@oze-mask, It is a natural, beautiful, mysterious way of connection to another human that can be shared with as many and whoever you want. But always be aware of who you choose because I believe their energy will always stay with you. The more one night stands and meaningless sensory pleasure hook ups people partake in, the more entangled you become in all of their energy, their baggage.
Took a deeper look at myself to really enjoy…used to be just an expected thing to do…fun enough, but would rather be on the back of a horse than the front of a guy. Then it took a deeper look at the others I shared my time with to find the ecstasy. I found up-front honesty & openness to be excellent attributes for exploring this part of the game…with fun & simple enjoyment of the time spent as key elements…where that may ‘go’ thereafter is not of first concern.
Wow! “If I knew then what I know now!” Right? It’s nice to have yer toes curled from the outside in, then the inside out…Explosive! Our bods are definitely designed with Amazing! :D
The most common way of manipulating people’s sentimentalities and something to be shared with care so it doesn’t become a banality.
What is sex for me?
I believe it is a very intimate act. Something like a commitment. When I have sex with a friend I take it as a commitment that it won’t get in the way and it’ll be just taken as, yeah, a recreative act. Or that it’ll give us a deeper understanding of each other but with nos strings attached. I haven’t had a girlfriend in years, I don’t really know what it’d be like to have sex with a gf at the present time. I just know it brings out some part of us that we don’t show anyone else. I often reject sex and I don’t even know why. Perhaps it’s because of the commitment it involves…….
I think it really depends on your point of view towards love. For me, sex isn’t an accomplishment, it isn’t an objective. Sure, it’s great, but to put it in a metaphor, I’d say that love is a chocolate cake,and sex is the sugar on it. With or without it, it will only slightly change the cake itself.
The problem is, IMO, people put wayyy to much importance on sex. They see it as an achievement, while it should only be a little extra to your relationship.
I’m not saying I don’t like it, of course I do, it’s probably the most awesome physical sensation you can have, but if you don’t have love with sex, you only have half the fun of it.
For instance, I don’t think I could have sex with a girl I don’t love, or at least have some affinity with
sex is getting lost in someone and forgetting everything else even exists on a deep level.
on a social level sex is just ways for people to fit in, or to just boost their self.. or couples pretending like they know what love is, thinking they share it by bangin it out ha
Nothing , i rarely even have sexual urges , it feels unnatural because we live in a sex based society.
I have mixed views on sex. Guys always get something out of sex (*cough orgasm *cough), girls…not so much. To me it’s kind of..unfair I guess? I don’t know. But that’s nature I suppose.
What is sex to me?
Sex is a release, an emotional cluster fuck of a concentrated goal. To feel, a climax. To feel, the cool atmosphere kissing my skin as it shivers in response to the energy my lover sends through my body. A connection to the universe I only find through pressing my skin against that of his soul- in an elevated unison towards a release of passion. And not passion in the sense of love, but passion on the spectrum of everything.
And this passion, it drives the fire to feel deeper than just blind desire. The build, the sensation, the absolute bliss of no control when left to the rhythm of pleasure. Sex is more than just an act of “fun”, I find sex one of the most passionate acts I could take part in.
And I fucking love every second of it.
Sex is a great thing. I used to have the mindset that it was to be with someone you love and care about and trust but that’s because I was raised baptist. So, to me it’s understandable that some would think that way because they’ve been raised that way. I, myself, decided to question my religion and old views and now I have my own opinions. I think other people should listen to out-of-the-norm ideas and opinions and try to find their own. A couple years ago, I would’ve called my present self a slut, and some people have(most joking-but probably with a hint of seriousness), but I think the way I view sex is great. And it’s because I’ve developed my views with great consideration of multiple ideas and opinions.