What should i do this summer ?(its my last question,I would stop posting frm nw

Light Yagami (@L.ight) 7 years, 7 months ago

I just don’t know, I don’t know what to do.I have to study after the vacation I have a very big exam,I know study 20 mins and 5 mins break , my mood is never goes to study but I have to.I always stay at home,watching animes(repeating those old episodes(X100),my life is boring)(I have social anxieties) .My mom is sick(weak),I don’t even care her(she thinks,1 day I would become a great man by studying,she is wrong,(I DONT WORK HARD).Even if I go outside,I have nothing to do,where should I go.I have only 2 friends,they come sometimes to invite me,they go to expensive places and I can’t afford to go there,they do some dangerous thing which my parents say me to avoid.I don’t know if I am confused or what.I can’t think straight.I don’t have courage to do things,get out.people of my age(17) should be curious,i am not.I should be learning like making sites,studying,extra activities etc.I repeat the same cycle again and again.wake up, eat something,computer,sleep.I don’t have courage to put my promises,i always break my own promises to myself.I have become dull. and most the shameful part is when a kid is learning thinngs like studying,music,sports,etc,and when they ask me i have no idea about that.I should be curious, learn everything,do new things not repeating the shit cycle but I feel like there’s a fog inside my head that I cant get out of it.in passed 3 years I have acompolished nothing,I hate to admit it but I think I am the most loser teen guy on this planet.
and I am thinking that posting questions on net wont help anything,I would stop posting questions from now.
well thanx

June 25, 2014 at 6:24 am
josephm (772) (@josephm) 7 years, 7 months ago ago

put in the time – smoke cannabis

jgreen (35) (@andropar) 7 years, 7 months ago ago



First of all, posting questions on the net certainly will help. Second, you are definitly not the ‘most loser teen guy on this planet’. How could you possibly know? It might feel that way, yes, but feelings aren’t a representation of reality. They are just something that your arises out of your thoughts. You might say that this is stupid and you really are the ‘most loser teen guy’. But I say fuck you, you aren’t and saying that over and over to yourself doesn’t help you a tiny bit.

You have to accept that you aren’t a bad person and that you can change. It will take time and it will be hard, but be honest, do you want to live the life you are living now? Before you can do anything else you have to realise, that your life is at your hands and that, no matter how bad it feels, you can do something about it and turn it towards the better. I must know, I did exactly that. I am 19 now, have a girlfriend, am fit, traveled through Australia mostly without a budget, will spend two months in France soon and afterwards I’ll start with uni. Four years ago, I was playing World of Warcraft 6 hours a day, was fat, the thought of having a girlfriend almost scared me and my grades sucked.

You can do this. You can get better. You do have the capabilities to do it and the resources you need are only two clicks away.

Make a plan about how you want to get better. Get in better shape, get a good grade on your exam, eat better, earn money, read more, whatever you want. Here you have a couple of links that might help you:

http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Good-The-Mood-Therapy/dp/0380810336/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1403693668&sr=8-1&keywords=feeling+good (read this book, changed my life)

7 Books That Will Violently Shift Your Perspectives

8 Books For a Higher Existence

Choose Happiness: 5 Ways To Get Out Of a Funk

My Radical Realization About Self-Love

30 Challenges for 30 Days

This is just the start. There are many people like you out there. All of them think that they are the ‘most loser teen guy on this planet’ and all of them have the potential to make it out of that rut. Don’t force anything on you, but realise, that you have your life in your hands and you can do absolutely anything you want with it. You don’t have to be rich to do so. You don’t have to be an alpha male to do so. You don’t have to be Albert Einstein-genius to do so.

You are you and you can shape yourself, if you just want to.

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