Regardless of what the situation may be or who it is that you are dealing with in your life one thing must always remain the same in dealing with all the relationships you encounter in your life and that is the way you view yourself and how much love you TRULY have for yourself and who you are as an individual.
Nothing and no one should be the reason why you should love yourself any more or any less. It is unhealthy to be so dependent on those around you to feel better about yourself and expect better days to come when if you’re alone you always end up back on square one with no real growth or direction of what it is that you want from yourself and anything goals you might have going on in your life. If you don’t get to know yourself first who is really going to stick around and look past things that they don’t like about you when you don’t even know what your own best assets are?
I never expected the road to reconditioning the love i have for myself to be so long and tedious but I was really starting from square one. Trying to love those around me to the best of my abilities in hopes that they would return those same gestures and favors for me in my time of need. Trust me, The last thing you want to realize is who is really not there for you in your time of need and only around because it’s “convenient”. Sometimes the only real reason you say you feel alone is because your blind to the very person you can never let go of, You.
I am aware that there is a ton of work to be done for myself but it’s going to take time. And with time comes further understanding as to why it is that I do the things that I do or why it is that I never really seem to put myself first. I just know i’m not the only one and that even on my darkest days things get better.
Rome wasn’t built in a day you know .. ;)
Be Happy , Live Happy ; more often than not its just that simple.
Self-love is often a false trick. Hide and ignore the parts you don’t like. I get sick of ignorant people who say they love them self, while they only move in a small areas We need relationships. And frankly I hardly see people who have good ones. There is to little interest in the other and to much it must be fun , way to little meditation and interest in layers of reality. We need 10000 lives to understand life a little bit. And now the narcistic love yourself floats around like a face book like To love yourself includes going through hell and transform it . To love oneself includes to love all. Most rerelationships are still based on reptile chemistry, I vote for a change