One of the last posts in HE is about feminism and how society sees women as inferior, bla, bla, bla!
I love this website, but I didn’t like this post! I think the idea was to promote feminism and show how women is still discriminated, but, in my opinion, it’s totally unbalanced and actually helps out a lot for some women getting even worse self-esteem than they already have!
So I’m making this post that we can point the ADVANTAGES women have over men… Which are lots! And there is no reason to feel inferior!
Of course if you get into the mechanical engineer university, as a woman you might be victim of some prejudice, but that is as much as a man suffers when he wants to be a nurse!
Here is the point: If you want as a woman (for some crazy reason!) get into “men” world, of course it will be a challenge… and if you are intelligent, I’m sure you’ll master it! I just prefer keeping myself in the fabulous women’s world, where everything is about making life enjoyable, fun and beautiful… and not about getting the nobel prize.
Here it is 10 reasons why being a woman is great:
1. A ship is sinking, who gets in the safety boat? “- Women and children first!”
2. You can wear whatever you want! You can cut your hair short and wear a jeans and everybody will think you are modern… Try a guy wearing a pink t-shirt and long hair: then everybody thinks he is homosexual.
3. Any time you want sex, you just need to announce it! There is always going to be some guy up for it! Not the same situation with guys.
4. Women by birth already have an important function in the society: procreation. Even if you don’t use it, it’s there! But men must find an importance in the society by certain age, otherwise he starts being pushed aside, or even eliminated (military service… wars…).
5. Women are beautiful! Even for other women… We are nice to be looked at! (Men magazine cover = woman; women magazine cover = woman)
6. Women are pleasant by nature! Entertainers, sociable and care takers. Not a surprise so many women like studying sociology, marketing, cinema, pedagogy, psychology…
7. The societies with biggest amount of women in the government are also the most developed societies, because things go better when women are in charge.
8. It’s much easier for women to be accepted by the society as homosexual than for men.
9. Women can dance, cry, scream of fear… and we are not judged for that! Men do the same and get lots of judgement.
10. Women can get multiple orgasms!
So, as we see, men don’t get easy as you thought! So from now on, please women, get rid of this low self-esteem and this wish of being like a man… enjoy being a woman! It’s a blessing and not a burden!
@mercurial, I think it makes total sense actually! :)
By this video: The necessity of reproducing overcomes the survival instinct.
That’s why I said: Years of existence and then suddenly people think they can change it all! but the basic natural instincts are always gonna stay! If they don’t we are doomed!
So I surely don’t think it’s slightly bad that men look for appearance in women… Even if it doesn’t work good for me, for example, standing near a pretty girl like this one I posted. Because that’s not social implementation… it’s nature! The same way that we suppress our hebeegebes because of orgiastic aspects. lol
@prittii, That’s one of the things Photoshop does, yes. It does a lot of other stuff too though, I’m well aware of what photoshop does because it used to be my source of income.
“I totally disagree! Men are extremely shallow creatures. ”
That’s the thing, you just disagree to things because they clash with your opinion.
If you ASKED ACTUAL GUYS you would find that my statement is correct. If you observed their behaviour, you would find that my statement is correct.
Guys like the more natural women. Sure, they might fuck a plastic fake bimbo every now and then, but do you ever see them falling for her?
Men are no more shallow than women. You’re so full of opinions that lack substance, you will never understand much with such a mindframe.
I am just waiting for a time when there is virtually no “men’s world” and “women’s world”, where it is just the world and we all live in it. Admittedly it is a little over optimistic. I run into the gender divide in society on a daily basis. I can get out of a speeding ticket by showing enough cleavage and crying but I’m crazy if I want to join an MMA gym. The message hasn’t really gotten across and labeling it ‘feminism’ isn’t helpful. It goes both ways. I’m sure plenty of men would make great nurses and stay at home fathers but they don’t do that because of the social stigma that comes with it. I decided to just not care about those stigmas awhile ago. It definitely affects my social life, people in a few of my circles avoid me because I don’t fit into their gender roles.
@manimal, I absolutely have to agree with you. My best friends are men and they tell me similar things. A plastic, shallow woman is fine for an hour but not for a lifetime.
Also I’m a photographer, PhotoShop can do amazing things to landscapes with HDR and restore old family photographs. It’s not *just* for removing wrinkles and making breasts bigger, that’s just how some choose to use that tool and the direction that the advertising and fashion industries have taken.
@mskisa, Why are you WAITING for that time instead of MAKING it?
Yeah, a plastic shallow woman is “disposable company” to most guys, just like ‘nice guys’ and meatheads are to most women. I think this is part of the problem though, that many men and women view members of the opposite gender as something to just use to feel good about yourself (that’s what most people do, although they often confuse it with love and stuff like that.)
Yeah, photoshop can do a lot of great stuff to photos. It’s great for drawing from scratch as well, truly awesome software.
@prittii, “I totally disagree! Men are extremely shallow creatures.”
I’m sorry, but what the fuck? Weren’t you just upset because you thought @manimal was being sexist? Because you thought he was generalizing about women? Now you’re saying men are “shallow creatures”? Wtf?
And, honestly, why is this thread still going on? I thought it started pretty well, with good intentions. Then the misunderstandings happened… :/
@manimal, When I say that men are superficial, It’s much worse! Men like women that are naturally perfect… No plastic insecure bimbos.
Tall, slim, long legs, long hair, great skin, dress sexy (but not slutty), high heels, pretty eyes, long eyelashes, sweet face, beautiful smile… Kind of victoria’s secret standard, but with a bit more boobs (natural!). Am I wrong?
Women like this are never single! And I tell you… they can be a donkey! Totally stupid… every guy still likes her and thinks she is an angel!
Another fact: As much richer the guy is, much higher his expectations about women appearance become.
And please don’t tell me women are superficial like men… Don’t you know the story of “The Beauty and the Beast”?
“It’s better marrying a beast that lives in a castle with lots of servants, than a poor pretty guy”.
I’m generalizing, but in hope that everybody can understand that there are exceptions.
I recommend instead of just writing suddenly angry posts, you point out exactly what I said that you disagree! Maybe I can see that I’m wrong… I’d like to learn with the people here and not just get offensive posts.
@prittii, And for the second time you claim one of my posts to be aggressive or angry. And for the second time I cannot see why. And for the second time you won’t tell me.
Also, I’m neither frustrated, nor angry, nor upset about your arrogance. On the contrary: You amuse me.
Perhaps modeling made you a man-hater, I don’t care. I think your pride is what makes you so unappealing. And this, as a conclusion, is cutting irony. Trying to impress men by modeling and hating men for admiring women who try to impress men by modeling.
@justgoing, First, i never said i’m a model… Also I didn’t say I hate men. I said men are shallow. Generalization… I know! But it gets boring writing “with exception”, near every post. I don’t think men are bad because they are shallow. Whatever! I also don’t care if some women want to have “men” qualities, as long as they dont bother me for not supporting it.
I’m also not trying to impress anyone, otherwise I’d say pretty stuff like “we are equal” like some other people… But I write what I think instead.
The same way I don’t care if you think im unappealing… You can guess by yourself my reason! ;)
@prittii, I find it ironic that you tell us that not to get upset because (not only are you assuming that we’re angry enough to be told to calm down) it seemed like you were getting frustrated by Manimal’s generalizations, lmao. Which was the point of my initial post, by the way: to point out that you were being a bit of a hypocrite.
@justgoing, Y’know, you’re so right. Threads like this have never been for me. But it’s like watching a train wreck.
@prittii, In your blog you do indeed claim to be a model or to have been a model. (http://prittii.blogspot.com/2012/04/cities-like-home.html)
@justgoing, If you disagree and dislike so much what I write, why were you wasting your time surfing through my blog?
I didn’t mention about my job and we are here to argue about the post, not about your views on my personal life.
. @kidd, ok. I have to clarify then: I didn’t get offended or angry about manimals post… Not even when he says the most absurd stuff. I respect his opinion and I think he is actually a nice guy and always have “polemic” and interesting points.
I think it’s sad that some people can’t be like him and having the hability to discuss without being offensive.
@justgoing, Actually your attitude is pissing me off much more than should, because you refer to my person in ways that I don’t like, suggesting that I “only post about sex” (when this post is not even about it)…. Im trying to impress men… With modelling (which is even worse)… Saying that i hate men, etc.
You got in my nerves to a point that I’m thinking seriously about deleting my account here! It’s no fun spending time getting frustrated about people that have urge in denigrate another person for no apparent reason.
@prittii, “I didn’t get offended or angry about manimals post…”
Nor did I about yours. Just because people express themselves in a more aggressive or abrasive way doesn’t mean they’re upset. Nor does it mean they’re being offensive. My “Wtf”s and “sure as hell” were easy ways to emphasize my point. Usually I’m rather cautious with my posts, adding “some” or “probably” or “maybe,” but when I’m sure about something, I want people to understand that. When I’m upset, I state so, since there really isn’t a way to tell with just words.
“I think it’s sad that some people can’t be like him and having the hability to discuss without being offensive.”
I agree. It’s definitely easier to do online, though, when you can think as you type, and reread, and think some more before saying anything.
@prittii, Oh! I wanted to say something, because I noticed no one pointed it out. It’s actually really interesting…
“Men can get turned on just looking at a woman naked (sometimes not even that – just the imagination do the work!), women need to be touched, physical, etc.”
Actually, it’s the exact opposite! I was surprised when I learned this, but some women can build up an orgasm through pure imagination/memory–no touching whatsoever. These women can get off on purely mental stimulation. They’re the more sexual sex, maybe.
Granted, this is only some women. Most people in general need some sort of physical stimulation. But, this is easier for women than it is for men. Most men actually need some sort of outside influence. They need to see or hear or feel something sexual. Not just a naked woman, they need something erotic to turn them on.
@prittii, Perhaps you should stop trying to have the last word.
If you have a personal problem with me you can write me a private message and we sort things out without everybody watching.
PS: I read your blog because I wanted to know more about you. I try to understand why you’re so aggressive and sad when it comes to men in general.
So much for men being shallow…