why ya'll arguing ?

 Tine (@tine)7 years, 4 months ago

we’re all a lil bit nuts here,

we all know pain in a deep way,

this person whose opinion you so-dislike is just like you, the only difference is their circumstances that accumulate to their personality,

but in a very real sense we are all brothers and sisters in pain here, we alllll understand it, see this, everyone here is a potential candidate for an amazing friend if you allow yourself to see how much alike in extreme you are to all the rest of us here,

April 27, 2014 at 2:23 am
Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

there’s been enough pain, dont cause more just bc you are in pain

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

pain? lol.. no.

And friend? heelllll noooo!! haha…. I wouldn’t be friends with people like that lol…

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krkrich (148) (@krkrich) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

This discussion was made in hopes of trying to spread peace & understanding. Why are you doing this?

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Peace has gone.

I don’t those people on the other threads “peace”, I doubt their even interested in “peace”….Look, this is just a website, such is life….

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

this conclusion is self created, there is no kindness in your approach, you create your own enemies .

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Eh?

I don’t subscribe to spiritualistic concepts. I think life is reciprocal. But that aside, I don’t agree that people must always approve of others as you do, and I don’t see how any party here is more “virtuous” than the other. Nor do I see why you’re attempting to influence me and how I must/should live when you don’t who or what I am. Maybe this is rude, but IMO/perception your post was rude to me.

Perhaps there is no “love” here, because there is no vested interest in such…. I may be perceived as being “disruptive” here, but then to assign all blame/responsibility to me is silly. call that a subjective view, but it is as I see it.

Meh, I’m not really interested. I think hostility breeds hostility, despite issues of being right or wrong. Suffice to say, if Ray/Roy, Marlon, Jon or EU reckon they are “annoyed” at me, I don’t really care. They have to see if they have brought on annoyance, but meh…not my issue, let them wallow in their imaginary victim status, and as learned/spiritual people not see the complexities of life/humanity as Buddha or Confucius said…

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

not going to argu with you, you do exactly what you claim they to do,

take or leave what i say, but know i see you as my sis? bro? in pain ‘ir’regardless whether you chose to see me in the same way

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

In pain? no, as said to me this is entertaining. i have no vested interest in peace.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i understand then, if you do not know your pain, then you do not know yourself. not knowing yourself leads to chaos, pure chaos has no interest in peace.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i am pleased i can entertain you =)

its hard to do that with someone you dont know, gotta get their humor style right, always challenging

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i accept you brother ? sister ? chaos, we are from the same spirit of the word, i enjoy your mind

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

its ok =) i just wanted them to hear the idea, perhaps they might one day even see it, no one here is really their enemy unless a choice is made to be so

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Again, why must I have vested interest in “civility” here?

I apparently think differently from you, it’s not my issue if you do, it’s the world. But then I’m really amused at their antics and not at all offended or hurt, why must I be? I have better things to do/plan for than what they think or me, or even what I think of them. Even though these are just people online, anybody who seeks to ruffle me up, I just mentally and emotionally discard. Such is life.

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Yesterday I cheered up a potato.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

by turning it into french fries ? cold man … cold. annnnnd you didnt even share

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

haha…..so if this is what I’m getting out of this site, then why think you’re scoring any points?

Sorry, but you put on this air of reason and insight, but you’re really not..

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

So?

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

eh? so? so? so? so? so? so?

just an observation, that’s all, and your agenda isn’t working…

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Working for what? Stop imagining things. The world isn’t against you.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

eh? I’m not interested…

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

You’re not interested the world isn’t against you?

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

lol… look, why the attempt at civility here? lol.. if you respond to all my posts here everywhere in harsh tones, meh…don’t expect civility reciprocated.

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Civility is the least of your issues, Tarzan. When you’re a hypocrite, a compulsive liar, a bad critic, and at the same time communicate with err, eh, lol, meh, and admit your ignorance, you make yourself untrustworthy. If you had my compulsions, you’d be erratic without the help from anyone to be hostile. But you don’t. That’s why you’re harmless.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

er…OK. Sorry but hypocrisy, lying, etc. are normal behaviours… just it’s funny I “owe” a detailed response when I’m a “potato” or many other put-downs, then it figures, and amuses me..

sorry, you don’t offend me, since i don’t see why owe you my time…

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

They’re normal behaviors to people with delusions of learning. The potato reference was to stop taking yourself seriously when nobody else does. If it amuses you nobody takes you seriously, be my guest.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

er…(have I offended you? Not my concern….learn to accept others hold different means of not just communicating but mannerisms also)..

lol… sorry, but you post vitriolic things to me, so why must I bend towards you? lol..

it’s either because you’re self-important, narcissistic or perhaps actually lack confidence, and want the world to “respect” you… sorry dude, it’s not like that…

I know that nobody takes me seriously, I am just one human being, no more special than all other 7 billion of us. just it further amuses me that you cite I’m your enemy, yet you now want me to accept your word lol.. get with the human programme fool, not one that popular culture or the media told you…

Sorry, I’ve never heard or read that, people who insult you gravely than expect them to welcome you hahahaha… too rich…

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Empty babble again with no relevance to anything, except how much you project yourself. I don’t expect you to welcome me, Desi. I expect you being the idiot you always are. Can’t go wrong with that. :)

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i’m not interested. though i strongly suspect you want me to welcome you, there is no reason I must or should…

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Suspect me to be unkind to you, obnoxious blockhead. What a stupid motherfucker.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

no, because you’re an Aspie… admit it..

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

I bet you can’t even offend a child with that err.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

er..(fuck off if you don’t like it..) I know YOU are against me.

So I respond in kind..duh, it’s life…

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

I am against everyone pointing fingers with no particular direction. Don’t flatter yourself. It’s all you do.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

eh? that doesn’t make sense. as i said, i’m not hurt nor really give a shit, just stacking up enemies vs. allies.

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Shut up, moron.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

lol.. you ask, I respond. You said that nobody here is “against me”..lol.. i’m not hurt, just you call me moron and then whine in another thread that I must “respect” you lol….

lololol.. sorry, this is funny. so make me shut up, kindly….

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

:)

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i stopped caring a while ago…..

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

This is not true, if it were you would have stopped,

it does not matter what you present when your actions say otherwise,

this is another example of snake eating snake, though Marlon is getting emotional too,

he is right in his assumption that you from the getgo do not welcome anyone,

and bc this is how you great reality, you get a negative response,

snake eating snake

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Yes, but I needed that emotion to polish an aggressive tune. Unfair, I know.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i understand, but fighting fire with fire brings what in the end ?

kinda becomes a logical choice in the end

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

A bigger fire! That’s the point. I appreciate aggression since it’s powerful and more truthful than people full of garbage like Desifemininemarshmallow. It’s energy. The tragedy is people don’t understand if you get angry you can use that energy however you want. The point of meditative states is to rest until you regenerate. Humans don’t hibernate. (That rhymes, I should steal that.)

Anyway. See, energy makes people think, the most stupid thread on this site could be filled with useful posts instead of advices out of someone’s ass. That could work effortlessly. It used to.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

“I appreciate aggression since it’s powerful and more truthful than people full of garbage like Desifemininemarshmallow.”

the problem with this statement is that you see what you and desi as doing different things, but aggression is aggression no matter what personality type wields it,

meaning no matter the presentation, it is still the same thing. by responding that way you are responding as he does, and if you do not like that part of him….

aggression also immediately closes most ears, i agree its powerful and depends on how the person uses it, but what its most powerful at in social situation is making someone ignore anything you have to say,

which goes back to the logical reason i mentioned

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

I like being aggressive to everything that stumps me. Otherwise I’d have to deal with it again.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i understand completely, i am only pointing out a way to make understanding things from people, not insecurities or doubts, but people, more efficient.

and aggression, though efficient in revealing character, often shocks the person into closing their mind,

which is the opposite of what you are trying to do if you are attempting to understand,

so i guess just know i am speaking in terms of efficiency, not judgement

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

You’re an Aspie also.

I told you I didn’t want to converse with you. Yet you still follow my posts in this thread to tell me your spiritualist bullshit….

Either you don’t get basic instructions, or you don’t know how to get on with people..

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

not sure if you meant this for me or Marlon, but if its for me, this is a thread i created,

and even if it wasnt for me:

you are no one to judge others about getting along when you have no knowledge on this topic yourself

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

yes, pain. if you dont understand the concept of pain and how it binds everyone, then there is still more for you to learn

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Why do you think I or anybody else here is in pain?

Yes, it seems like a free for all/chaos, meh, I keep saying I’m not hurt and i’m not, I have no issue to be.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

“I keep saying I’m not hurt and i’m not, I have no issue to be.”

then why are you aggressive ? not being hurt implies not caring, there is nothing that suggests from your responses that you do not care, based on one thing, you respond. if you were as indifferent as you say, you would not respond at all,

it ‘entertains’ you is just an excuse, and to respond in a negative way, no matter the justification, implies anger, even yours, a cold anger, a calculating merciless anger that sees no reason to be civil bc if it doesnt benefit you,

and anger comes from pain

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

I’m sorry, but kindly answer this…

Why are you trying to appeal to me? Because “you’re human”? Why should people believe your spiritualist beliefs of how humans should be or interrelate? If we’re strangers, and we are tied in any way by blood, friendship or other association, you hold NO right to “appeal” to me or convert me to your moral system/values. If this were done in public, and by somebody of less civility/discourse (as I wouldn’t do the following) you’d either be told to fuck off or get punched.

Sorry, but don’t push your spiritualism onto the masses. Not everybody cares nor needs it..

This may be hostile, meh…get with the human condition. Buddha or other Eastern gurus said to expect it and rise above it, didn’t he?

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

bc you are my brother or sister in chaos / pain . only reason, take or leave it =)

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i only give you logic, that has a cause/effect to back up what i am saying, dont take my word for it, apply what ive suggested if you want to see , or dont , there is no pressure here, but bc you question i will respond

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

The only logic going on here is treat parasites like equals.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

parasites is a good word, the real question is, how are you not one ? we are all parasites in some way, humans in general, humans on humans (kinky) emotional parasites, you mentioned knowing selfishness, so you cant be that naive to what i mean,

treat people as people, and recognize that you were once no different in your own way, and get over the ego that disallows compassion for someone, is all im saying

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

I can’t brain right now. I wanna kill something. Excuse me.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

lol =)

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Adrenaline rush.

I was saying that I do treat people as people when I recognize that once I was no different. When I was in fact different I don’t treat them like the same.

I wanted to say that earlier, but I usually keep minding my business.

Everything is so slow!

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

rushing like that feels greatt! like tony the tiger greeeaaaatttttttTTT!

you dont gotta mind your own, i enjoy your contributions

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

lol.. so call me parasite, I’m against you, simple.

I’m not hurt, why should I be? It’s just that I blank you off, yet you respond wanting me to be your friend. Unless you’re socially needy, meh, i don’t care..i don’t need to…

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Daniel Nacho (0) (@nachosnotmine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Man you guys make a great couple!

No offense. I just got a headache looking at this thread and now need some fresh air. I hope the problem was solved! :)

#firstpost

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

there definitely was a lot of bad air that needed letting out, i think theyve come to some understanding of each other though,

understand desi came this convo after a thread was created about him that was just about shitting on him, so he was already a bit pissed and feeling attacked, like id be

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

er…OK.

You claim to be a spiritualist, right? Doesn’t your practice benevolence? You dismissed my initial point based on your ego/overly subjective view, and then condemn me for acting as I am. I thought spiritualists stood for universal tolerance?

It’s because of spiritualists like yourself that Western society has its contemporary issues. Take this as an insult, but you frankly have insulted me, unless you can cite how your insult is morally more valid than mine..and without recourse to what Buddha or Confucius or whoever stated..

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i make no claims, though i have noticed that you keep labeling me that as a way to ignore what i am saying,

the only claim ive made is that i am your friend even if you decide you dont see it that way with me.

i am not going to argue tangents

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Why must I take in what you say? That isn’t normal..

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

it should tell you something if someone is being genuine and nice to you, yet you feel insulted and condemned. i am a very imperfect person filled with every emotion, i am a sociopath, i am a saint, and i am everything in between, just like you, i have hurt people, i have caused pain.

please feel no condemnation from someone like me

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

eh? sorry, but you all judge me, yet you get irate/irked if i judge you…

so you get your beliefs of life from pop culture outlets, got it….

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

as your friend, im gonna gently point out that is just an excuse to not like people,

ive told you two things about my words 1) take or leave anything i say, there is no pressure, i will enjoy you the same, 2) i am imperfect, very flawed, deeply insecure for most of my life in a deep, profound way, there is 0 judgement in my words towards you,

i cannot make you believe me, but i hope that you at least give me a chance

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jaid (0) (@jaid) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i love you!:) @tine

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

backatchu! =)

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Was this for me? It’s on the same blue line. I really don’t pay attention. You’re a harmless kid. I’m wondering why nobody notices that.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

lol.. I have paid attention to you either…

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i agree with Marlon, this is why i like you, i think youre just testing me, you can stop if so, i am genuine

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Dude, this will be final post to you:

– You catch more flies with honey than vinegar..think about it…

– You’re amusing, since you attempt to insult me, then expect near total respect from me in another setting, showing you’re not as learned/schooled as you think you are or project. Either you weren’t socialised properly, or you think you’re some cool dude who thinks the world has to acknowledge him. Prove me wrong, if you think world “must” acknowledge anybody…

– You get angry and offended with your friend vigolde or whoever supporting you, to say I’m not taking you. Sorry, but in my culture, strangers don’t cajole other strangers into believing their worldviews. I don’t know you, nor who you are, and you’re not my mother, father,or anybody who holds a true prerogative to “cajole” me to do anything. You’ll probably get irate at that, but then I don’t give a shit, since i LAUGH at your sentiment stemming from abnormal reasoning or what your culture/school tell you…Most normal people don’t cajole strangers into accepting their word, prove me wrong. As I said, this is funny, I’m a psychologist and I’ve never seen any study supporting or endorsing that.

– If I choose to lash out, so be it. Again, who are you? You’ve done little to earn my respect/trust….this is the human condition, get with it..

Yes, I seem “aggressive”, meh, not my concern. Somebody must give a sound reason why I must be “ultra-respectful” when it’s not the norm in the real world..(apart from your high school or wherever..)

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YHVH (462) (@spaceghost) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Do you help your clients? Genuinely curious if you do. I may not get an answer but that is to be expected.

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

“I’m a psychologist” or “I’m a philosopher” usually means, “I shall pretend I have gained wisdom but not from personal experience, I memorized something, okay, punch me in the face now, please.”

First off, we all have the Asperger’s syndrome here for some reason and this blob of brain goo spits out he’s a psychologist.

Give me a break.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i’m not interested, why is that so hard to comprehend for somebody so “smart”? Doctors memorise info, how do you think they know how to treat you? lol..

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Yes, I genuinely do believe do you… And? opinions, evil… besides, you posted you have no job, meh…layabout?

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Are you cocksure?

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

No, amused at you, and your attempts to “get at me”..lol.

sorry, kindly state wher I’m owed you time, courtesy or attention, or where any human does of another, bar mystic gurus’ beliefs?

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Create a correct sentence first to know what attention is, then reply on time, not 6 days later to understand when time should be used. Courtesy is something too complicated for you yet.

And what’s that? Broken Indian-English?

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

I’m not Indian, but then i’m just messing with you…I don’t value Standard English on a Web forum..

I like how you think I must like you, respect you, when this isn’t normal and it’s comical… (eek!!! non-Standard English!!!)

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Desi is an Indian name, though. Nothing comical. Have some self-respect.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

lol../ sorry this is too rich..

Why do you seek to “manipulate” me by trying to “read” who I am? Why do you care? And so I’m not a “good person” per your or your supposedly “inherent” worldview…lol.. what is inherent in life?

You’re both an Aspie, and insecure, since you try to “appeal” to what strangers say to you, and “read” them to say “how worthy they are” lol.. this is too rich…

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

You’re suffering from delusions, kitty. No one wants idiots to appeal to them, get it in your head. If you knew the first thing about Aspies you’d know they have better memory than yours and insecurities are not a defining symptom for any type of syndrome.

I don’t “read you”, I remember what every single of your threads and posts say. It’s not easy to forget since you repeat the same thing all the time and have no idea what creative expression is.

Why not play with your friends with helmets?

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

why be so spiteful Mr. Marlon ? i feel at this point everything that needs to be said has been said, no need to antagonize further, lets let this thread die away, and be the vanishing mediator that it was

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

He replies to me, I keep parasites at bay. It’s part of my immune system. I grow spikes if they come too close and watch them bleed to death. He’s not playing what he enjoys, obviously.

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

lol.. I don’t believe that. You try to
‘read” me just to get one over me, based on your subjective view of “who is good or bad” lol..

it amuses me, since you’re spending so much time in trying to label and pin me down…if you’re not secure in yourself, so be it..

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

You said you were done with this thread and then you replied to me. You’re no different than any other cunt spewing negativity around the whole internet. You are everyone’s bitch @desifemilove

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

@desifemilove, @shoeopener,

look fellas, i get you dont like each other, im asking you though to take this convo to msg plz, and let this thread serve its purpose

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Don’t like? I don’t care….i only play him on since he likes to appeal to me based on “the hallowed ways of man” or some spiritualist crap lol..

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

I changed my mind, this is funny..

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

same to you sir, you are aware now, i ask that you respectfully let this post die away, and see it for what it was, a chance to communicate in a non-threatening setting,

i like this idea of a vanishing mediator, and would very much like this thread to be one of those

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

– They’re “offended” that I contradict when they believe they hold some “innate and sacred right” to do so.

– they say they are “wise” but then expect total strangers to welcome them and expect them to be their friends…

– They respond to innocently made posts rudely, and then go on to say how “enlightened and wise” they are…

I’m actually amused, since they place too much energy in this forum. I’m just here for fun, and their abnormal appraisal of the world despite meditating, knowing psychology (hahaha….given the points above, what dopes!!) and being spiritual…another crock of poo again given the circumstances…

So if they’re offended so be it. I act as I please, others have to get with it. If STRANGERS are rude to innocently made threads, then I respond in kind, they’re not close to me, I don’t lose any energy of it.

As a psychology student and part-time practitioner, this makes me laugh immensely, since it shows insecurity and ego on their part. they merely read what their guru tells them, or what some magazine tells them, as fact. and they project that “fact” to others who don’t need to give a shit.

As said, I’m not bothered, since I don’t see myself as the bully/aggressor here. If others don’t like how I behave, or if I “threaten” them, meh…it’s the human way, I don’t care, it’s good fun for me…

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

In real life, I smack people on the head if they’re twats because I believe telling someone how to behave is abuse of power. Go figure. No, that was in high school, I’m still living in the past. I smack only friends, though.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

to respond to rudeness with rudeness is to allow your ego to control you, you can deny or not accept that notion, but it is still the truth

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

It is? meh…if so, it’s immaterial. it’s just i’m not interested her in peace, i have no incentive to be.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

a snake eating snake concept is not immaterial,

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Leave me be.

I don’t know you, go away.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

okee – doke, my intentions are not to upset you

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Go away. The basic fact you’re a spiritualist makes me disrespect you..

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

the only ‘spirit’ i believe in is the metaphorical use of the word, with that in mind, you and i, and everyone else on this site, are grouped together in a highly concentration mesh of strong willed, ultra eextreme, independent thinking individuals,

so, the only thing i am interested in are spirits like me, like you, like everyone else on this site,

the point of this post was not really about you, the motivation for this conversation more spawned by Ijesus for his post about you bc he knows better, he’s just being a dick for some reason,

you cause your own strife my friend. your problems are only a result of your approach to reality, you wanted a reason why you should consider others ?

bc it benefits you …… and before you dismiss this idea, take a second longer and think about what i mean, you are of similar mind, i think you see

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

I don’t consider the posts of people here in the grand scheme, no. why must i?

as for jon’s thread, lol.. i’m not interested either. it’s just he is annoyed that i give him as good as he gives me. to a large extent, i just come to this site as i am bored and to discuss issues, it’s not my problem if others don’t like my approach.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

see, your answer demonstrates you didnt think about it, how you would benefit here is your brain will become receptive to outside information, more capable of adapting to reality, by adding the collectives perspective to your own, you increase your knowledge exponentially, where even you disagree with the poeple, there is still benefit in this. learning to get along heightens your information intake.

“it’s not my problem if others don’t like my approach.”

this justification is the same that emotional manipulators use, they make it everyone elses responsibility to handle their problems, its never their fault,

and purposefully cause negative emotions that fuel their sense of being attacked, which fuels their sense of justification,

^how is what you are saying any different than a basic, run of the mill emotional manipulator ?

i ask sincerely bc i know youre smarter than that, you know what you are doing deep down, you are no fool

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

there comes a point where even the largest ego must realize that if its always, everyone else is wrong, i am the only one right, that there might be some sorta ego illusion causing mischief

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

er.. no, you’re trying to change who I am, when you don’t know who i am. People generally don’t persuade others to their own views.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

take or leave

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Why must i consider your point? If you get offended, I don’t care.

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Anonymous (0) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

. @desifemilove what is the purpose of arguing with someone if you wont consider their point? why are you even here?

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Despite spiritualism or PC or whichever ideology you subscribe to, no person has to consider absolutely another’s view…

And as I’ve said here continually, I’m just here for the lulz..

And if you say, “you didn’t answer my question fully!” and? so what if I didn’t?

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

see, thats why you should learn to get along, here you are, assuming you know me and what i stand for, yet you have not once ask a single question to clarify,

this is why you cant identify my ideology, bc you refuse to open your mind to an outside perspective,

and you do this as a conditioned response to feeling controlled,

conditioned meaning someone else made you this way, which is the sad reality of those who refuse to let anything control them, they are only that way bc of someone else

meaning you are still being controlled

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

er….look for another convert.

Define open mind. Define being open. you’re trying to convert me to your school, sorry I have my own thoughts, i don’t need Web strangers to appeal to me, when people generally don’t do this.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

im sry, but im not gonna argue your illusion that i am trying to control you,

you keep talking about ‘conversion’ and ‘school’, i dont know these terms,

this is just more examples of what im talking about, you cant even hear me bc you are to busy fighting off the illusion that i am trying to control you,

im just giving you my opinion, and my opinion is a positive look, and they are just words unless you give them meaning,

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

does it bother the logical side of you at all that youve come to a full conclusion about me based on no personal information or attempt to understand ?

isnt this what you keep telling me everyone is doing to you ?

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

You judge me, and give no reason for your judgment. You thus hold no right to claim “one-up-man-ship” as it makes you look petty and pathetic…

Look, stop trying to appeal to me, and frankly you’re not worth my time, since you insinuate people hold a right to be controlled…lol.. whatever dude, those are your morals, not mine..

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

again, ive made no judgement, i make cause/effect observation that you have not yet made a single effort to try to refute,

instead you just lash out. i can see that our convo probably needs to stop here,

i hope that one day you will see that not everyone is against you,

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Dude, this will be final post to you:

– You catch more flies with honey than vinegar..

– You’re amusing, since you attempt to insult me, then expect near total respect from me in another setting, showing you’re not as learned/schooled as you think you are or project. Either you weren’t socialised properly, or you think you’re some cool dude who thinks the world has to acknowledge him. Prove me wrong, if you think world “must” acknowledge anybody…

– You get angry and offended with your friend vigolde or whoever supporting you, to say I’m not taking you. Sorry, but in my culture, strangers don’t cajole other strangers into believing their worldviews. I don’t know you, nor who you are, and you’re not my mother, father,or anybody who holds a true prerogative to “cajole” me to do anything. You’ll probably get irate at that, but then I don’t give a shit, since i LAUGH at your sentiment stemming from abnormal reasoning or what your culture/school tell you…Most normal people don’t cajole strangers into accepting their word, prove me wrong. As I said, this is funny, I’m a psychologist and I’ve never seen any study supporting or endorsing that.

– If I choose to lash out, so be it. Again, who are you? You’ve done little to earn my respect/trust….this is the human condition, get with it..

Yes, I seem “aggressive”, meh, not my concern. Somebody must give a sound reason why I must be “ultra-respectful” when it’s not the norm in the real world..(apart from your high school or wherever..)

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

only you feel insulted, only you feel controlled, just bc you feel something doesnt mean its true, it could just be you,

i am your friend, thanks for the convo

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i’ll respect your wish for me to leave you alone,

but im gonna tell you that if you are going to post in a thread i created,

and do your whole snake eating snake manipulation thing,

im going to butt my nose in each time, this thread is about getting along,

you are still doing everything you can to make that not happen,

if this is what you want to do, please go make a thread of your own

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

also, you may need to learn how to get on with others better. You seem to reckon, for whatever reason, that others innately owe you their time…. they don’t….it’s been that way for..i dunno…many thousands of years…

If you claim such wisdom, you should know that attention, trust, respect and time are earned. but meh, you think controlling others is a virtue, meh..i don’t care..

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

i get along with ppl just fine, on here and in my reality.

you who has no knowledge on how to get along has no right to say to that me

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

if you take anything from this conversation, take away the concept of pain,

and if you explore this side of you, come talk to me again, either in post or msg,

id love to hear how you are progressing, if you decide to let an outside perspective in,

i am giving awareness, not orders, meaning you can take or leave or see no value, its all up to you,

but the awareness of pain will set you free.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

you just described that people are flawed, and people dont know everything, and for some reason this amuses you.

and ? yes, ppl are jerks, ppl are misinformed, ppl are shallow, people are, people are, people are,

this is no reason to hold them in disdain, to be amused implies only arrogance on your part, and you are far from perfect, just like the people you hold in disdain, making your disdain only an illusion,

this is a snake eating snake concept

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Anonymous (175) (@) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Stop trying to appeal to me. I told you before. What will or can you do if I do not?

I know I am not perfect, no human being is. However, your appealing to some stranger to accept your morals is pathetic.

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Tine (366) (@tine) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

like you, i only give my opinion, nothing is being forced on you here, take or leave whatever i say, and if you decide to leave it, im not going to change how i feel about you, youre still my friend

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Why do you think that is? It happens in every group of people. A girl from my psychology course asked everyone yesterday “Do you want us to be on friendly terms and work together?” and everyone rushed to reply to her they don’t. :) They know already they are untrustworthy to begin with, and think that “such is life, I might as well contribute to the uselessness because I’m unique.” :)
I’m a phantom there.

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Marlon (97) (@shoeopener) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

On second thought, they probably lost hope in others and are way too suspicious of them. Aren’t we all wearing shields to what makes us vulnerable to pain? Defense mechanisms against inevitability? That doesn’t make much sense.

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YHVH (462) (@spaceghost) 7 years, 4 months ago ago

Idk I just say things and some people go into tantrums over it. I don’t even try like they think I do. Kinda frustrating.

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