Your best sex!

SinD Rae (@araeya09) 8 years, 1 month ago

I know that some people might have a hard time with this forum in particular. I don’t care. I don’t want to have an argument about morals. I would like to hear some experiences others have had that helped them understand the best way they get off, male and female.
If you have ever done research online about how to better your sex life, you would know it is hard to find any answers that are not typical and seem to be written by people with little connection to their partners.
Before you judge me for calling on HE for this, I’m just looking for some more genuine answers and am curious to see what will come out of this.

So, what gets you off folks? What makes sex orgasmic for you? And I don’t know what kind of lines we are treading with the HE creators but I’m sure we can keep this respectable as well as interesting.

October 27, 2013 at 11:02 pm
niknak_pattywac (117) (@creativenik) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

All of you guys are making me so jealous : ( lucky bastards

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SinD Rae (19) (@araeya09) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@paralyticdreams, Which is extremely pertinent to the fact that sex is advertised to people through a very narrow view of it. It’s probably the biggest reason people have problems with sex, alone or in relationships. They are told that if they aren’t having mind blowing sex every once and a while there is something they are doing wrong, or even worse, something wrong with them.

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Dickie Blue (0) (@twisted.Equilibrium) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

Ohhhh…oh deary me.

The best sex I ever had was the freakiest sex I ever had.
The only thing that bled was my nose.

The only thing that erupted was our laughter.

Fortunately I have a pretty easy-going boyfriend, so it didn’t matter too much that I left puddles of blood across his bedroom, or bloody handprints on his back. And it made our second-first time so much better.

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JonH (1,139)C (@IJesusChrist) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@araeya09, Sorry I wasn’t insinuating you or your guy were ugly. Its just a funny saying.

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SinD Rae (19) (@araeya09) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@ijesuschrist, Haha I didn’t take it that way, but thanks for the reassurance. You never know.

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TJ (57) (@Justus) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

Sex is like pizza. Even if it’s bad, it’s still pretty good.

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TJ (57) (@Justus) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

Oh dammit. I guess I should’ve read through the whole post before saying that. I didn’t think anyone else would..

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Di (239) (@dida) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@paralyticdreams, That happened to my previous partner too at times. THC lowers the blood pressure so that might be the cause for that. Nothing wrong with you :)
Although, Marijuana heightens the senses, therefor more sensation down below ;)

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SpreadHopeLikeFire (5) (@taylortragedy) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

the times when you’re both racing to get your/each other’s clothes off

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Ray Butler (1,423)M (@trek79) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@araeya09, My worst sex was when she just laid there, my best sex wasn’t even sex; a hot chick jacked me off when I was at work.

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Filip (2,818)M (@filipek) 8 years, 1 month ago ago

@beyond, Totally agree mate!

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genesis-of-mind (35) (@Genesis-of-mind) 8 years ago ago

The best kind of sex is when you just let go and don’t worry about anything. It isn’t a fucking performance, everybody has different kind of buttons they like having pushed, and no one works the same way. I also feel that knowing your own body, and feeling confident about yourself makes sex a lot better.

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Monica:3 (12) (@Monica9494721) 8 years ago ago

@araeya09, Mine would have to be when I had an entirely new attraction to his body. See, I have always thought guys looked weird.. Not to totally hot to me. So sex was more an eye closed experience because his body was a turn off. Then I met this new guy who somehow changed my view of his body. At first it was just rolling through the motions, but he knew exactly how to do it and make me feel good and just one day while looking at him all shirtless and crap, I just thought, “Wow, I have the hottest boyfriend..” And since then our sex has been amazing to me and he says its better for him too. I keep my eyes open a lot and just let them wander his body and it just gets me to look at him and watch him look at my body. From what I can tell, most girls don’t have that issue with guys bodies so this may be a rare thing. But that physical attraction did a lot for me. You may already have that though. Also, we did in the rain one time and that was also amazing and just as awesome. We were by a spring and just the water made me calm while he was keeping me all warm and so, that was thrilling to me.

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Monica:3 (12) (@Monica9494721) 8 years ago ago

@genesis-of-mind, I totally agree with you! For the longest time I held back and wouldn’t tell him what I wanted but then I met this guy and I just let him do his thing for the first few times and then when I started telling him what I needed he would pick it up immediately and made me feel so much better than usual. Him allowing me to take control or just do nothing helped. He helped me to just let go of my sexual worries and that was amazing.

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vampqueen (1) (@vampqueen) 8 years ago ago

i’ve been with my boyfriend for two years and the sex has just gotten better and better, i mean at first with the initial spark it’s always fun and exciting but it’s so true that as you get to know someone better you get less inhibited. my advice to anyone who’s having bad sex is ask for what you want! there’s this expectation that sex be this huge serious cosmic thing where you magically know what the other person wants/likes but in reality it’s obviously different! if you tell the person you’re with what you like and they do the same you’ll have a better sexual experience for sure

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Matheus Pinheiro (44) (@Mattgood) 8 years ago ago

Beautiful sex is beyond ejaculation, it is a way to visualize love in its simpler state.

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geeb (0) (@geeb) 8 years ago ago

i had a three some w/ two bi -girls

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Anonymous (12) (@) 8 years ago ago

I like the truth. Honesty is sexy. Especially erotic talk.
Tell me what your thinking, feeling, desires and such.
I’ll be wet within seconds….

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Eric (1,819)M (@blankey) 8 years ago ago

My best sex wasn’t actually “sex”. I was fooling around with a girl for a good hour without actually having sex and for a majority of the time the energy given off and exchanged between us was far better than any sex I’ve had. Actually, maybe not…but it was a weird and incredible experience.

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Carole (4) (@kcufyoubrah) 7 years, 12 months ago ago

@araeya09
In all honesty, I believe sex to be more of a spiritual thing than ever, of course with the right mind-set/person. I can’t exactly explain it in which you would understand, but sex is like a form of meditation in a way. No it’s not a slow and quiet movement,believe you me. It is not something I think goes with love. Although having sex with someone you love is nice, but people make the mistake of seeing sex as love or vise versa. Also, sex isn’t something people should be ashamed of talking about or doing. Too many people, society itself, are always trying to look for different ways to degrade people especially with things they love. So it’s really sad that sex cannot be enjoyed without negative things coming around to bite our ass.

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